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How I Stopped Hating Her for Dumping Me
Author Jay Cradeur shares 5 steps for transforming heartache and anger to love and compassion. It starts with saying three words you don’t want to hear. — “That Fucking Bitch!” This is how it starts....
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Sean Connery’s Never Fail Secret to Embrace Her Heart Every Time.
Author Jay Cradeur shares the one surefire thing you can do to make her day, open her heart, and see her smile. It is easier than you think and it works every time. — “Books make great gifts because...
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Every Man, Every Day, Should Ask Himself One Question
Author Jay Cradeur shares a moment to moment choice which directly impacts a man’s experience of life and lover. — “Only mystery makes us live. Only mystery.” – Federico García Lorca I am an arrogant...
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What Walter White and Breaking Bad Taught Me About Being a Man.
“Say My Name!” Author Jay Cradeur shares some lessons learned from Heisenberg aka Walter White of Breaking Bad. — I was and still am a huge fan of the television series Breaking Bad. I have shared...
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Do Men Ever Stop Thinking? Is There A Masculine Path To Joy?
Life as a path of joy. “The What? How do I stop the damned thinking” — I think too much. At least, I think… I think too much. When I think of my childhood, I am saddened at the current state of my...
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How Looking Death In The Eye Changes A Man
Author Jay Cradeur shares the five searing lessons he learned when he faced death. ––– Seven months ago, I was in the peak of health. At 56 years of age, I had lost 45 pounds, dropping from 235 lbs....
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Five Searing Documentary Movies Every Man Should Watch
Author Jay Cradeur Shares Five Powerful, Educational, Introspective, Fascinating And Compelling Documentaries That Will Challenge You. — I love to watch a great movie. There are few things is life...
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Men, Are You Afraid? You Absolutely Should Be.
Author Jay Cradeur shares the secret to transforming fear of fear to the powerful impact of embracing fear as your teacher. — Perhaps the most important relationship we will have in this lifetime is...
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Eliminating Waste: 3 Ways to Reduce Excessive Spending During the Holidays
Author Jay Cradeur shares a few simple strategies to reduce spending and increase the love you share and feel during the ever-increasing commercialized holiday season. — I enjoy the holidays. I grew...
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One Man’s Quick Observations of Food and People in Vietnam
Author Jay Cradeur shares his visceral and heart warming experiences in Ho Chi Minh City, formerly Saigion, Vietnam. — Upon arriving at the Ho Chi Minh International Airport, obtaining my highly...
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You Don’t Need a Woman to Grow and Be Happy, You Need Men
Author Jay Cradeur shares the rare opportunity of working with men over the past 15 years and the powerful impact on relationships. — Many men, especially young men, look for a woman to fill a hole...
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Am I Putting Every Single Amazing Woman on Too High of a Pedestal?
Author Jay Cradeur shares his views on the subtle power of the feminine that is rarely acknowledged by the masculine. — I wrote the following words several years ago. At the time, all of my...
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Five Simple Things Every Partner Wants From Their Man
Author Jay Cradeur shares a few tips on attracting a partner and creating an environment in which they can thrive. — How do you have a person want you? Give them exactly what they most want from you....
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The One Secret to Get What you Want
Author Jay Cradeur shares what 56 years showed him (so far) about being content with life. — Give them what they want! There, now you have read the punch line. The secret to get what you want is to...
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Music Is This Writer’s Constant Companion
Author Jay Cradeur shares his love of music and it’s influence on the creative process. — I do quite a bit of writing. The truth about writing to which most authors will readily admit is it is often a...
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Tom Petty’s Brilliant Lyrics Tell A Free Fallin’ Guy Story
Author Jay Cradeur explores themes of a man’s life with the words of poet warrior musician Tom Petty (with video links). — “God, it’s so painful when something that’s so close is still so far out of...
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Masculine Messages from 2016’s Academy Award Nominated Films
Author Jay Cradeur shares his observations of five must see Academy Award nominated films. — Movies feed my soul. Rarely am I happier than when I can lie down on the bed, my head propped up, trusty...
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Are We All Just a Bunch of Robots?
Author Jay Cradeur raises some questions about what we know and what we think we know. — During the past month, I have been driving for both Uber and Lyft. It’s sort of like being a taxi driver and...
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5 Honest Questions to Ask Yourself About Being Good
— “How do you feel about yourself as a man in the world today?” I have been in hundreds of men’s groups and men’s weekend events, sitting in a sacred circle, asking this tough question. My answer and...
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Five Masculine Thoughts for an Empowering Relationship
Embed from Getty Images — “Like a sculptor, if necessary, carve a friend out of stone. Realize that your inner sight is blind and try to see a treasure in everyone.” ― Rumi I was twenty-two when I...
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